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The Four Types of Poverty

When Helping Hurts: How to Alleviate Poverty Without Hurting the Poor and Yourself is a new book by Steve Corbett and Brian Fikkert that argues that there are four primary relationships that have been broken by the fall: our relationship with God, our relationship with ourselves, our relationship with others, and our relationship with the rest of creation.

Another way to look at this is that these are four different types of poverty. All four of these types of poverty are part of the effects of the fall, and in Christ all four of these types of poverty are being reconciled back to their original place in the created order.

  1. Poverty of Spiritual Intimacy. This is the most profoundly and utterly devastating effect of the fall, because it severs us from God himself. Human beings are now profoundly estranged from the very source of all life. Conservative, evangelical Christians are chiefly concerned with this sort of poverty. This is, indeed, the pinnacle of the work of Christ on the cross, because Jesus died for people, first and foremost. Believers in Christ will respond in love and faith to this reconciled relationship through prayer, studying God’s word, evangelism, and fellowship with other believers.
  2. Poverty of Being. This sort of poverty affects how we view and understand ourselves. Romans 12:3 teaches one “not to think of himself more highly than he ought to think, but to think with sober judgment.” The fall corrupts our capacity for accurate self-assessment, leading to either God-complexes (thinking too highly of ourselves) or self-loathing (denying the image of God in each of us).
  3. Poverty of Community. We are ultimately self-serving people which comes at the expense of the greater good and other people. This leads to exploitation, abuse, discrimination, and so forth. We see this in scripture at the Tower of Babel (Genesis 11), where humanity’s one great attempt at world unity was a grand plot to overthrow God Himself. We experience deep divisions of community through racism, classism, intellectual elitism, agism, and social Darwinism (only the strong shall survive).
  4. Poverty of Stewardship. God gave humanity a stewardship over creation, calling us to cultivate the earth and bring forth its fruit through joyful labor. The fall screwed all that up and now the earth fights back and doesn’t want to be subdued. Earthquakes, tsunamis, and droughts cause devastation and kill people. Human beings resist our mandate to subdue the earth and either become workaholics or lazy. Instead of caring for the earth we waste its resources. Many people have lost a sense of purpose in their lives because they don’t realize that they were created to subdue.

In short, “poverty is the absence of shalom in all its meanings (p. 62).” The job of the church is to work to restore shalom to the earth, reaching its apex in personal conversion, but not limited to that.

Corbett and Fikkert argue that we all experience multiple types of poverty and different degrees of poverty. “Every human being is suffering from a poverty of spiritual intimacy, a poverty of being, a poverty of community, and a poverty of stewardship.” But many poverty alleviation efforts reduce the notion of poverty to the material realm, and then only use one possible tool of poverty alleviation, monetary relief.

This is particularly useful for me, because I frequently encounter people who are asking for money on the street, or pull up in my car beside people  on the exit ramp holding signs.

The problem, according to Corbett and Fikkert, is that if we don’t see poverty in all of its forms, we make the problems worse through our relief efforts. For example, when a middle class person gives away free money to a homeless person, s/he feels superior which contributes to his God complex. The middle class person’s poverty of being is worsened through their attempts to help.

The homeless person experiences shame or self loathing or inferiority, and having to beg for free money from others further complicates his own poverty of being. And the homeless person’s poverty of stewardship locks him into a mindset that he has no responsibility as an image bearer of God to work and provide. Both people’s poverties of being were made worse by the transaction.

The authors urge a broader understanding of poverty that encompasses the whole person and not just his amount of material possessions or income earning potential. Poverty of stewardship could cause one person to be homeless and refuse to work, and cause another person to be a workaholic and greedily oppress others.

As a result of this, poverty alleviation is best not handled by handouts. But this does not get anyone off the hook, but rather calls us to something much deeper. It calls us to relationships. I could toss a couple of quarters into the homeless dude’s cup and feel great, but harm us both in the process. That costs me practically nothing. But building a relationship with a person is much more difficult.

It means that I will have to make myself available to hang out with people outside my social class. I will have to listen to them, ask them questions and get to know them, and be patient with the fact that they may not open up to me until I’ve known them for a long time. And I will have to be open about my sin. I am not going to save them, but we may be mutually beneficial to one another. That homeless person can teach me about my own poverties as well.

Jesus came to not only die for sins, but to reconcile all things to himself. That means he wants to reconcile us to God, reconcile us to each other, restore within us a “sober judgment” about ourselves, and restore creation to its proper place in subjection to God.

That’s our calling. Let’s do it.

Communities of Grace vs. Communities of Performance

Tim Chester posted about different types of church communities and how the ethos of the group affects individuals.

Communities of Performance

  • People talk about grace, but communicate legalism
  • Unbelievers can’t imagine themselves as Christians
  • Drive away broken people
  • The world is seen as threatening and ‘other’
  • Conversion is superficial—people are called to respectable behavior
  • People are secretly hurting
  • People see faith and repentance as actions that took place at conversion
  • The gospel is for unbelievers

Communities of Grace

  • People can see grace in action
  • Unbelievers feel like they can belong
  • Attract broken people
  • People are loved as fellow sinners in need of grace
  • Conversion is radical—people are called to transformed affections
  • People are open about their problems
  • People see faith and repentance as daily activities
  • The gospel is for both unbelievers and believers

The 8 Kinds of Friends You Need to Have

Matt Perman’s blog focuses on how to be productive while maintaining a focus on the big picture ideas of life. It’s a great blog from a Christian perspective but deals with questions such as email management, bad meetings, workflow, and so on.

This post is a review of key points in Tom Rath’s book Vital Friends: The People You Can’t Afford to Live Without. These are the 8 kinds of friends you need to have and why.

1. Builder

“Builders are great motivators, always pushing you toward the finish line. They continually invest in your development and genuinely want you to succeed — even if it means they have to go out on a limb for you” (87).

2. Champion

“Champions stand up for you and what you believe in. They are the friends who sing your praises. Every day, this makes a difference in your life. Not only do they praise you in your presence, but a Champion also ‘has your back’ — and will stand up for you when you’re not around” (93).

3. Collaborator

“A collaborator is a friend with similar interests — the basis for many great friendships. … When you talk with a collaborator, you’re on familiar ground … you often find that you have similar ambitions in work and life” (99).

4. Companion

“A companion is always there for you, whatever the circumstance. You share a bond that is virtually unbreakable. When something big happens in your life, this is one of the first people you call” (105).

5. Connector

“A connector is a bridge builder. …. Connectors get to know you — and then introduce you to others” (111). Connectors are always inviting you to lunch and other gatherings where you can meet new people, and point you in the right direction when you need something.

6. Energizer

“Energizers are your ‘fun friends’ who always give you a boost. You have more positive moments when you are with these friends. Energizers are quick to pick you up when you’re down — and can make a good day great” (117).

7. Mind Opener

‘Mind Openers are the friends who expand your horizons and encourage you to embrace new ideas, opportunities, cultures, and people. They challenge you to think in innovative ways and help you create positive change. Mind Openers know how to ask good questions, and this makes you more receptive to ideas” (123).

8. Navigator

“Navigators are the friends who give you advice and keep you headed in the right direction. You go to them when you need guidance, and they talk through the pros and cons with you until you find an answer. In a difficult situation, you need a Navigator by your side. They help you see a positive future while keeping things grounded in reality” (129).